22 Things – Creative Change Challenge


I joined Angie Richmond’s (@write_me_happy) 22 Things – Creative Change Challenge!

The challenge is to make a list of 22 small steps you can take to change your life RIGHT NOW! If you want to take part in this challenge, you can click the picture above to get to Angie’s blog. (If the link doesn’t work it’s because I’m new at this…) so, just in case… here it is: http://arichmondwritemehappy.blogspot.com/p/22-things.html

 

So here is some of my list in no particular order…

 

1. Read more

2. Edit some of “problem child” (aka Daniel) everyday

3. Blog more. About this journey and all the nonsense in between

4. Procrastinate less (this goes for everything!)

5. Exercise everyday

6. Take my tests on time every week and not fall behind in school

7. Make a list/plan to get back on my feet

8. Write more

9. Find new museums and creative places to take my daughter

10. Take more pictures, OF EVERYTHING! 🙂

11. Paint because I haven’t painted in years

12. Reconcile with meditating (really need this one)

13.Write more poetry

14. Try new things

15. Ask more questions

16. Smile more

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20.

21.

22.

 

As you may have noticed, there are six empty spots. I’m still finding my place in this life, so I figured I’d do this a little unorthodox. I will write six more blog posts as I add a new item to the list. Why I can’t think of 22 things to put on this list, I’m not sure, but what I do know is that I’ll find out.

What are some things you could do RIGHT NOW to change your life?

 

 

Prioritizing

Our everyday real lives can be a struggle trying to juggle all the things we would like to accomplish. There is anything from homework, kid time, writing, reading, beta reading, cooking, etc, that gets lost in the shuffle. There are never enough hours in the day.

Some of us turn in to insomniacs trying to get everything done. Others procrastinate and curl up in fetal position wishing for the work to go away, or magically be finished. Truth of the matter, no one will do it for us, and the more we procrastinate the worse we feel about it.

With a completely new workload, I am starting to feel overwhelmed (more than usual) myself. Instead of curling up in fetal position, I’m prioritizing. If by any chance, on this green Earth, I wake up early, that’s when I write. Most days that doesn’t happen. So as soon as my three-year-old bundle of joy wakes up, it is breakfast, schoolwork, and kiddo time. Writing usually suffers during the day, but I squeeze it in when possible.

After the little one goes to bed, I get all this free time. With my sudden freedom comes the “now what” part of the day. Reading… oh, how I have missed you, but I have to work on my story… sorry.

I still have trouble with all this free time because I want to do everything at once and run around like a chicken with my head chopped off. Not really, but I feel like this is the only time I have to do it all.

In reality, I need to take a deep breath because this time comes everyday. EVERDAY? Yes, everyday.

Queue the prioritizing.

Therefore, that is what I will be doing. If I happen to get some writing done during the day, then that night I will read. If I do not, then reading will come after I have written until my heart is content.

There is enough time in the day to do… a lot. Not everything, but a lot. Although you and I both may feel the same way, making a flexible schedule to prioritize your workload is probably the only way not go more insane than you already are.

Happy prioritizing, my friendly readers!

Your Story Loves You Too

Not finishing your novel is like cutting water, you can‘t. Well, maybe some of you can, but why would you give up? What would it take for you to say “enough is enough”?

Recently, I was in a rut. Started going through my first WIP (work in progress) to prune and edit, only to find that there were little to no transitions between scenes, my grammar (makes gagging noise and rolls eyes), and all around needed a lot more work than I was expecting. At one point, I was so discouraged I said I was going to re-plot it and start from scratch.

This did not help the discouraging factor. At all. I would sit there staring at it, cursing it… loudly might I add, and when not “working” on it, it was a nag in the front of my conscience saying that I should be. Little embarrassed to say, but I thought really hard about giving up on it. Would have been easy if only that nag would have gone away…

Upon recent decisions, I have decided to take yet another break from this WIP because all it was doing was driving me mad. And even though it has been almost a year since completing the first draft, it needs another break; I need the break, badly. I will finish it!… eventually.

The nagging hasn’t stopped this past week, but my focus has shifted to a short story with a brighter light at the end of the tunnel. Progress is being made somewhere, and what looked so bad before doesn’t look so bad now.

To arms first WIP, I am still coming to save you!

I love my story, like most writers, that is why we write them. And that’s why they are our own. No one else can write the story you have written or are writing like you can. My story is salvageable, and I am sure if you have or are feeling this way, that yours is too.

Find that love again. Renew your focus. Do what it takes because your story loves you too.